Why this is hard to keep track of

  • Every habit app on the market exists to reduce a behavior, which is exactly the wrong instrument
  • The useful signal is a change in stimming, and change is invisible without a baseline
  • Different stims mean different things, and they get flattened into one word
  • It is the earliest warning available and it is almost never written down

Worth recording

  • Which stim, since they are not interchangeable
  • When it increased or changed, and what the day around it contained
  • Whether it settled things afterwards or kept escalating
  • Environments where it disappears entirely — often masking rather than calm

Cadence

Noted when something changes, not counted all day

In practice

Say it once, in whatever words you have

The moments most worth recording are the ones where filling in a form is the least realistic thing in the world. A sentence, typed or dictated afterwards, is a much lower bar — and it carries the context a checkbox would have lost.

Stimming Chat

Hand flapping has been way up all week, and she's started the humming again, which we haven't heard since the move.

Called 4 tools

  • log_stim(type: "hand flapping", change: "increased", window: "7d")
  • log_stim(type: "humming", change: "returned")
  • get_history(stim: "humming")
  • correlate(a: "stim_change", b: "logged_events")

Logged. Humming has appeared twice before in your log — the three weeks around the move in March, and the assessment period last autumn. Both times it started four to six days before a run of hard evenings.

Every figure here was counted from entries you made. The model picked which tools to call — it doesn't interpret, diagnose, or decide what anything means about anyone.

And then ask

The question the log can answer

Months of entries hold real answers to the questions you've been guessing at, and reading them properly has always meant a spreadsheet and a free evening — which is not a thing anyone in this situation has.

Ask in plain language. The answers come back with the numbers behind them, including when those numbers are too thin to mean anything yet — which is the more useful answer more often than people expect.

Asking about the pattern Chat

Is the humming a bad sign?

Called 3 tools

  • get_history(topic: "stimming", window: "6m")
  • find_pattern(group_by: "antecedent")
  • compare_periods(metric: "events")

Not in itself, and it isn't something to interrupt. But historically it has been an early one: it appears three times in your log, and each time evening dysregulation rose over the following week. It reads more like a smoke alarm than a fire.

Counts and averages over your own entries, nothing more. Where the data is confounded or too thin, the answer says so instead of rounding it into a conclusion.

The reason most people start

Something to actually bring to the appointment

You get fifteen minutes, once, after waiting months for it. The questions are specific and the honest answers are all some version of "I don't know, it's hard to say".

What this gives you: A record of what regulation actually looks like for this person, which is useful to an OT and to anyone writing a support plan.

  • Export the date range you were asked about, as a file you can print
  • Counts and timings rather than an impression of the worst week
  • Your own notes kept alongside the numbers, in your words
  • Nothing shared anywhere unless you choose to share it

What it won't do

  • Diagnose anything, or suggest that it could
  • Score a person, or rank them against anyone else
  • Set a target for fewer events, or a streak of good days
  • Recommend a treatment, a therapy, a diet or a medication change
  • Share your record with a school, a clinician or anyone else on its own

It's a notebook that can do arithmetic and answer questions about itself. Deciding what any of it means is a job for you and the people advising you.

Early access

Start with what you're already trying to hold in your head

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